Last time we saw what is meant by neglected marriage and today we shall be looking at what I term PSEUDO marriage.
This is the kind of marriage that seem to be prevalent amongst the rich and successful. It is actually what some call co-habitation where the couple just put up a show to give the impression to the public that they are happily married.
In this kind of marriage, the couple do not display any kind of affection in private but in public they hold hands and may even kiss to create an atmosphere of cordiality whereas they are strange bed fellows and forever apart. In some cases they maintain separate bedrooms, separate cars, separate everything and the only thing they have in common is that they share the same address.
This kind of marriage thrives on the need to please the public, look good in the eyes of people without dealing with fundamental issue bothering on their marriage. Their bodies may be together but their hearts are miles apart.
How do you recognize this kind of union? One of the commonest ways is when the couple begin to keep secrets from each other. When they stop sharing vital information with each other. Another clear sign is when they begin to be irritated with each other company. This is especially so when the woman begin to deny the man his legitimate demands for sex and closeness or vice- versa.
I have heard stories of a man and wife who lived under the same roof for 12 months without sleeping together. It was not long before the marriage hit the rocks.
There are many people who have found themselves in Pseudo marriages because of family pressures, greed or pure error of judgment but whatever the case may be the good news is that there is a cure for every troubled marriage.
Jesus can fix that troubled marriage and turn your Pseudo marriage into a Proper marriage. I strongly believe that there is no such thing as a wrong marriage. What we have are right people applying the wrong solutions.
God bless you.
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